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Picture a 23-year-old, six weeks postpartum, scrolling at 2 a.m. while her newborn finally falls asleep on her left shoulder. 

She doesn’t dare move. The white noise machine hums. Her shirt is damp where the milk leaked through again. She has slept maybe four hours since yesterday, never more than ninety minutes at a time.

At her checkup earlier that day, her doctor brought up birth control. The appointment was fifteen minutes, maybe less. There was a pamphlet. She said she’d think about it, her brain exhausted from the sleep deprivation and the worries of new motherhood.

Now, with her free arm while the baby sleeps, she’s typing the question, bleary-eyed and exhausted, into TikTok: Is the pill safe after having a baby? What about if I’m breastfeeding?

The feed answers fast. It always does.

A woman in soft lighting, her own baby on her hip, says she “detoxed” from hormonal birth control and finally feels like herself again. A stitched video warns that the pill “wrecks your fertility for years.” Another says it dried up her milk. A carousel post promises cycle tracking works “just as well, naturally.” The comments are full of women saying, ‘Same. This happened to me. Why didn’t anyone tell us?

She watches one more. Then another. The algorithm learns what she lingers on, and it gives her more.

None of it comes from her doctor. All of it comes from someone who looks like her, sounds like her, and is awake at 2 a.m. like her.

The baby stirs. She locks the phone and lays it face down on the blanket, without a decision. Or with one: she won’t start the pill.

There used to be another voice in this. It belonged to the community educator at the young moms’ group, the one who came back every month, knew everyone’s name, and answered the same questions without judgment. In clinic after clinic, the funding behind that work has been frozen, cut, or rewritten.

The question didn’t go away. It went to the feed. When the clinic closes, the algorithm opens.

This didn’t happen by accident, and it didn’t happen in one place.

Title X is the only federal program dedicated to family planning. For more than 50 years, it has funded a national network of clinics serving low-income and uninsured patients: health departments, community health centers, school-based providers, and independent family planning clinics.

In the spring of 2025, the Trump administration withheld funding from almost one in five Title X grantees for months, putting more than 840,000 patients at risk and forcing some sites to close.

That fall, the federal office that runs the program was effectively shut down. When the money was finally restored, clinics had to meet the same need with less.

Congress refused to eliminate the program. The administration’s budget for next year proposes funding it at zero anyway. And in April, the Department of Health and Human Services rewrote what the program is for. The notice for the next round of Title X grants gives preference to organizations that emphasize fertility awareness and “natural family planning” over medical contraception.

Sit with that for a moment.

About a third of reproductive-age women have encountered the false claim that natural family planning works as well as hormonal birth control, according to KFF, an independent source for health policy research, polling and journalism.That is one of the claims filling her feed at 2 a.m. It is now also the direction of federal family planning policy.

And it is landing in a country without Roe. In the states where abortion is now banned or sharply restricted, birth control is the last safeguard a woman has against a pregnancy she didn’t plan. With typical use, about 9 in 100 women on the pill become pregnant in a year. With fertility awareness methods, it’s about 24 in 100. Nudging her from one to the other doesn’t just narrow her choices. It takes away the floor beneath them: weaker protection before pregnancy, and in much of the country, no options after.

So the government isn’t just removing the messengers. It’s changing the message.

The next grants run for up to five years. Applications are due in January, and the money starts flowing in April 2027. How much money there is, and how hard anyone in Congress pushes back on what it’s for, will be decided by the Congress we elect on November 3.

What young women hear about their own bodies through 2032 is on the ballot this week.

Here is what’s strange about the 2 a.m. scroll: she doesn’t trust it.

KFF’s 2026 Women’s Health Survey found that health care providers are still the most trusted source of health information for women of reproductive age. Eighty-six percent trust them a great deal or a fair amount. Only 15% say the same about social media and influencers. And yet 87 percent have looked for health information online, through search engines, social media, or AI.

That gap is the story. Women are not choosing the feed because they believe it. They’re going to the feed because it’s there at 2 a.m., and the voice they trust isn’t.

And the feed is not neutral. In the past year, 35% of reproductive-age women saw or heard something about contraception on social media. Among women 18 to 25, it was 42%. More than half of all reproductive-age women, 53%, have encountered the false claim that the hormones in birth control are harmful. About four in ten have encountered the claim that hormonal birth control limits your ability to get pregnant later. About a third have encountered the claim that natural family planning works as well as hormonal methods.

Seeing a claim is not the same as believing it, and most women don’t act on what crosses their feed. But some do. Among women who saw contraception content on social media, about one in ten changed their contraceptive use because of it: 8% stopped hormonal birth control, and 9% started or switched methods. Among women 18 to 25, those shares were higher still.

The education function didn’t disappear when the funding did. It was outsourced to the feed, to whoever posts most confidently, in the best lighting, at 2 a.m.

What the national numbers don’t show is who acts on what they see, and why. That is where this story turns…

At my request, Brittini Frederiksen, an associate director with KFF’s Women’s Health Policy Program, and her colleagues broke these findings down by race and ethnicity. The pattern runs opposite to what most people would guess.

Black and Hispanic women report less exposure to contraception content on social media than White women. But among women who saw contraception content on social media in the past year, Black and Hispanic women were roughly twice as likely to act on it.

Twelve percent of Black women and 14% of Hispanic women stopped using hormonal birth control because of something they saw, compared with 6% of White women. Twenty-nine percent of Black women and 28% of Hispanic women talked to a health care provider about it, compared with 14% of White women. And 43% of Black women and 49% of Hispanic women went looking for more information, compared with 29% of White women.

It would be easy to read that as susceptibility, as if Black and Hispanic women are more easily misled. The data says something else. These women did not simply take the feed’s word for it. They were twice as likely to call a provider. They were far more likely to keep searching. That is not credulity. It is vigilance.

The survey can’t tell us where that vigilance comes from. History can.

The first large trials of the birth control pill were run on women in Puerto Rico in the 1950s. Many of them were poor, and many were not told the full risks. For decades, Black, Latina, and Native women were sterilized without meaningful consent, in Southern hospitals, in Los Angeles, in Puerto Rico, and in federally funded clinics. Some of it was paid for by the same 1970 law that created Title X. Within living memory, as the legal scholar Dorothy Roberts documented in Killing the Black Body, long-acting contraception was openly floated as a tool for reducing the number of Black children born to poor mothers. And today, Black women die of pregnancy-related causes at more than three times the rate of White women.

Women who carry that history do not treat information about their reproductive bodies casually. When something unsettling crosses their feed, they react, and they react fast. They check. They ask. They stop, sometimes, just to be safe.

That history shows up in trust, too. KFF found that Black and Hispanic women trust their health care providers somewhat less than White women do, and social media somewhat more. To anyone who studies health equity, that is not surprising. Decades of research document distrust between Black patients and their providers, and the health care system writ large. It is the same history, showing up in the data. The question was never whether these women should trust more. It is whether the system has earned it.

Go back to the woman scrolling at 2 a.m. I never told you who she was. If she is Black, or Latina, the data says she is more likely than most to act on what she saw. Her vigilance isn’t paranoia. It’s inheritance.

The trust is not the problem. The trust has been earned, and spent, and earned again by the people who keep showing up. The problem is what happens when those people are gone. Women who most need a trusted voice to check against are left with only the feed.

Now imagine two versions of her morning after.

In the first, she brings her question to someone she trusts. Maybe it’s the educator at the young moms’ group, the one who has answered this question a hundred times and never once made anyone feel stupid for asking. She tells her what the feed didn’t. Some pills can affect milk supply and some don’t. There are options made for exactly where she is. Her fertility will come back when she wants it to. She leaves with a plan. Maybe the pill, maybe something else, maybe nothing for now. But it’s a plan she made with real information, and it’s hers.

In the second, there’s no one to ask. The moms’ group lost its educator. The next appointment is weeks away, or it never comes. Every state but Arkansas now keeps new mothers on Medicaid for a full year after birth. But coverage is not care. As many as 40 percent of women never make it to a postpartum visit at all, and the share is higher for low-income women of color. For most who do go, that six-week checkup, fifteen minutes and a pamphlet, is the only one. The feed is still there. She doesn’t start anything.

The data tells us which women are most likely to go looking for that first morning. Black and Hispanic women who saw contraception content were about twice as likely as White women to bring it to a provider. Their vigilance is searching for a trusted voice. The cuts are removing that voice where the search is most active.

For a woman six weeks postpartum, the stakes are not abstract. Pregnancies that come too soon after a birth carry higher risks: for preterm birth, for low birth weight, and for a body that has not finished recovering. For Black women, who already die of pregnancy-related causes at more than three times the rate of White women, an unplanned pregnancy arriving before her body is ready is not a small thing. Contraception is maternal health care.

So what replaces the educator? For now, mostly the feed. And if the next round of federal grants goes the way April’s notice signals, the trusted voice that eventually returns may steer her toward the same approach the feed already promoted: track your cycle, skip the pill.

That’s what her vigilance meets when the messenger is gone. Not silence. A louder version of the same bad answer.

The Congress we elect on November 3 will decide how much money Title X gets next year, once the stopgap funding runs out in December. The administration has proposed zero. That Congress will also decide whether anyone presses the Department of Health and Human Services on what the next round of grants is for. Those grants, awarded in April, will shape what women in clinics across the country hear about their own bodies until 2032.

That is a long time in the life of a 23-year-old. Long enough for the baby on her shoulder to start kindergarten. Long enough for a second pregnancy, planned or not.

We talk about reproductive freedom as a fight over what is legal. But a right you can’t get trustworthy information about is a right that exists only on paper. Freedom over your own body requires knowing the truth about it, from someone who has earned your trust.

So the question on this ballot isn’t only whether clinics stay open. It’s who will be there to answer when a young mother asks, at 2 a.m., whether the pill is safe.

Right now, the answer is the feed.

When the clinic closes, the algorithm opens. On November 3, we decide whether it stays that way.

Dr. Rachel Hardeman serves in an unpaid leadership role with a reproductive health care organization.

 

She is a nationally recognized scholar, public intellectual, and founder of BEYOND, an intellectual and cultural platform advancing new possibilities for Black motherhood, care, liberation, and human flourishing. Named one of TIME’s 100 Most Influential People in the World in 2024, Dr. Hardeman's work examines how structural racism shapes reproductive health and redefines what care can make possible when rooted in dignity, love, and radical imagination.